Showing posts with label Other Stuff. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Other Stuff. Show all posts

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Where do the birds go...

... when there is a terrible storm?

With all the tornados we've had lately in the Southeast, I wonder where all the birds seek shelter? They come right back out after the storm has passed, just as they were chirping loudly enough to wake me up this morning. I picture them finding abandoned buildings and huddling together to stay warm, perhaps even singing around a fire. But seriously, where do the tens of thousands of birds go when there's a tornado or hurricane and the storm covers hundreds of square miles? Does anyone know??

Monday, May 05, 2008

Promises... Resolutions to Change the World

My husband and I just returned from a glorious trip to Europe. We spent 10 days between London, England, and Mallorca, Spain. I'd been to London several times and it is still raining and gloomy but we had fun visiting tourist sites via "The BIG Bus Company." We visited the London Dungeons, a haunted house of sorts; The London Eye, the largest ferris wheel in the world that lets you view the landscape for I don't know how many miles (it takes over 30 minutes just to revolve 1 time); and Madame Tussaud's wax museum where we got to take photos with faux likenesses of some of our favorites: Samuel Jackson, Morgan Freeman, Martin Luther King, Jr., and The Rock.

Mallorca, Spain is where I renewed my spirit though. The weather was perfect - mid 70's and sunny every day and low humidity. The sun seemed to always be shining, even at night. Gorgeous sunsets, and turquoise Mediterranean water surrounded us daily. I could live there eeeasily. We ate, we shopped, we even had a day trip on a yacht complete with lobster, shrimp, salmon and Thai Chicken curry. It was like a beautiful dream. I counted how truly blessed we are to be able to experience something so wonderful -- to be floating in the sea with nothing but the wind pulling us and being able to just relax and enjoy. The rock formations of the mountains, the open ocean, the sandy beaches: sights that much of the earth's population never get to witness.

We were blessed by my brother in law, B, who arranged the trip to Spain in celebration of my sister's (his wife's) birthday. He arranged the flights, the hotel, the yacht, and our dinners in the evening.

While there, we were surrounded by people who had money - my sisters' and B's friends who had come along to celebrate. Money was easily thrown around on cigars, countless bottles of wine and more food than any of us could put away. The sensational stories that were told of trips to the south of France, Thailand, other parts of Spain, Greece, and wherever else you can imagine were common conversation. While it was inspirational and lead me to dream of future exploits, I was reminded again of the excessive lives we live. I had lately had these thoughts as I'm going through self-exploration, that we truly don't need all the things I have, nor do I need most of the things I want. We could live much more cheaply and save more.

Don't get me wrong... I would travel the world and eat fine cuisine, drink fine wines, and shop 'til my luggage exceeded the weight limit... IF I had it like that. But with the economic times being what they are, that is not an option, nor would it be prudent even if funds were of no object. Aside from the political mess going on in the U.S., we face a global fight to save the environment, which in the scheme of things, is way more important than the economy or the face we see in the White House.

I haven't been everywhere, but it seems to me that the U.S. is one of the most wasteful countries. We also seem to not respect our rivers and streams or even our neighborhood streets. We throw litter wherever it's convenient (especially in the lower-income neighborhoods), rather than waiting to see the next garbage can. We use enough plastic to make a 20 oz cup and more cardboard than a jewelry box to package a half-ounce, 1-inch square memory card. Trucks have to pick up our grass clippings and yard waste on a weekly basis, and we leave water running like it is worth nothing. We are dying from cancer and viruses, our water is becoming undrinkable, and now even drinking from plastic water bottles can cause health problems.

So upon our return, Hubby and I made some promises. I want to record them so that I can ensure we stick to them. We want to do our part to help Mother Earth renew and repair, so that she will take care of our children and our children's children when it is time. Here is our list to help conserve resources, which in turn will also save money...

  1. Use less chemicals. This includes using more user-friendly cleaning chemicals, but also using less of the things that pollute our water, like shampoos, conditioner, soaps, etc.
  2. Recycle more. We already participate in the county's recycling program but we're going to be better about putting everything that can be recycled in the correct bin -- this will entail putting recycle bins in other parts of the house and not just the kitchen.
  3. Don't leave water running unnecessarily, such as when brushing teeth or washing faces, dishes, etc.
  4. Only run the dishwasher and clothes washer when it is full.
  5. Donate more. Rather than just "trash it", give it to charity where someone else may be able to use it. And you get tax write offs!
  6. Turn off unnecessary lights and don't pump the A/C or Heat so much. We already do this for the most part, but there's always room for improvement.
  7. Switch to fluorescent bulbs wherever possible. We've done this already.
  8. Turn off computers, monitors, game consoles, cable boxes, TV's and any other electronics when not in use, and especially at night.
  9. Use less toilet paper and paper towels. You just don't need so much. Especially out in public where the tendency is to use big wads of it.
Please feel free to help me add to the list! We're open to ideas on how we can better conserve and make the world a better, cleaner place.

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Church in Atlanta, Anyone?

OK, does anyone out there have a good church they can suggest to me in Atlanta? Hubby and I are searching so it's been a different one every other week since I've moved. I'm Baptist and need some good foot-patting, hand-clapping, gospel music. I also need a convicting, tell-it-like-it-chis, bible-based, Holy-Ghost-filled, preach-up-a-storm, pastor. The other thing is I'm not big on mega churches, but I'd be willing to give it a shot. On top of all this, if there's one located anywhere on the North side of ATL, that would be great too, but hey - Have Bible. Will Travel. It doesn't have to be Baptist - I'll do non-denominational. As long as they're worshipping Christ and is Biblically based, i'm cool.

If you want to suggest your church or a church you've visited, I'd love to hear from you! Thanks!

Tuesday, October 09, 2007

I'm BAAAACCKKKKK!

I've been gone for a long time... I'm just not realizing HOW long -- almost 5 months. Forgive me! Life has been wonderful and tumultuous these last months and I have so much in me to share and get out of me... I fear my carpal tunnel will go into code red. Time had become such a commodity this summer, so blogging was one of those things (along with pleasure reading and working out) which had to be cut back.

Just to give you a quick breakdown, here's what I've been up to since we last encountered (and my excuse for being MIA for so long):

April - Put my house on the market in DC to prepare to move to ATL
June 30 - Moved to Atlanta, Georgia - Yay, I finally got out of DC!
July 7 - Was maid of honor at my girl Deb's wedding in NJ. Beautiful wedding!
July 21 - Went to the emergency room because I was hemorrhaging and severely anemic - Help me, Jesus!
July 29 - I turned 34 years old... WOW - I can't believe i'm 34!
August 16 - Had surgery to remove uterine fibroids. Ouch!!
August 31 - I got married in Gulf Shores, Alabama. Yahooo!!!
Sept 2 - Flew to Thailand with my new hubby for a 2 week honeymoon in Bangkok, Chiang Mai, and Phuket, Thailand... great time!
Sept 15 - we made it back safe and sound the day after a plane went down in Phuket! Thank you, Lord!

Since then, my house in DC is STILL on the market and the price has been severely dropped. The housing market has tanked and by the end of October, my tenants in my Fairfax property are moving out so I have to try and sell that too. Meanwhile we are looking for our new home in Atlanta and even though the market has gotten bad, we've been outbid on two houses that have been on the market for less than a week. What the heck?

I've recovered nicely from the surgery and am feeling better and more energetic than I have in almost a year! The family's good, married life agrees with me (actually feels no different than before to be honest), so I can't complain about life in general.

All I can keep saying is, God is still on the throne. He knows my heart and what i need. He'll never put more on me than I can bear. He may not show up when you want Him but He's always on time. I'm reminded of this daily.

There is so much in me waiting to be birthed, not only experiences I want to put down for the records (blogging, journaling, etc) but ideas and just thoughts. I hope to start sharing more and more as life calms down. But in the mean time, don't write me off. See you soon!

Friday, February 02, 2007

Does it Help You if I Wear Red?

So today is National Wear Red Day in support of awareness for Women and Heart Disease - our #1 killer (of men, too). So, I might put on some red this afternoon when I have to go out... it happens to be one of my favorite colors and I look pretty good in it, too. I've done the "wear black in support of...." this or "wear white in support of..." that, but I must come out of the color clothing closet and admit that I don't get it. Same with the little ribbons on my lapel, which I've had several of.

I'm curious. Has anyone out there decided to get their blood pressure checked or took time to research heart disease because they saw people wearing red? Were any of the other "wear some color to support [yada yada yada]" days helpful in anyway? Did seeing a little pink ribbon on some one's lapel remind you to do your breast self-exam or go get a mammogram? I thought that the little ribbons would at least open up dialogue and give me an opportunity to tell someone what it's about, but no one's ever asked me to explain.

I'm not saying it's a bad idea and I have nothing against people taking a stand to collectively observe an issue. I'd just really like to know if my wardrobe choice is really doing something positive for someone's - anyone's - health. Please let me know. Thanks!

Why Didn't I Think of That?

Perfect gift for your single male buddies who love to nap (or female buddies, if they go that way).


Thursday, February 01, 2007

Things I Can't Live Without

OK, well technically I could live without them, so this is really more of a review of my most cherished blessings - the things I'm most thankful for. I suggest you make a similar list of yours. When you're feeling alittle funky (like I am today with this gloomy, cold weather), go back to your list and reflect on how blessed you are. Continue to add to it whenever you think of something new.

  1. Music, Music, Music
  2. Chocolate - Especially Harry & David's Milk Chocolate Bing Cherries






  3. Red Lobster's Cheddar Baked Biscuits (That's about all they have that I want.)
  4. My family and friends and my LBG







  5. Rudy and Shmoo












  6. Good books
  7. The ability to write
  8. Cute Shoes
  9. Ice Cream - Esp. Dove Bars, Breyers Butter Pecan, Hagen Daaz Coffee
  10. Sweet memories
  11. HGTV
  12. Sunrises and sunsets

  13. Cheesecake Factory's Key Lime Cheesecake
  14. Legal's Stuffed Lobster
  15. Popeye's Chicken 'n Biscuits
  16. Flowers
Yup, those are pretty much in order of priority :-). The things you love most can tell you a lot about yourself. I realize a lot of mine are food items. Maybe I need to find more non-food things that I'm really into. Or maybe I need to be a food critic. Enjoy your day and don't forget to count your blessings!

Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Future Guru (I need your help!)

Just got my yoga on and showered, so I'm feeling really relaxed. When I do yoga, by the end of the routine, my mind gets super focused. I start to hear the voices inside. It hit me that tomorrow's the end of the month, the last day of January 2007. That number rings in my head - 2007. Seven is the number of perfection, completion (as is discovered in the Bible and other historical texts), and just so happens to be my favorite number. I'll be 34 (3+4 hmmm) this year - in the 7th month of 2007 (anyone out there into numerology?). I figure with all these 7's, this must be MY year for completion and perfection. Not saying I'll ever be perfect, but I strive to be the best me that I can.

Another thing popped into my mind - this kid, Marc Yu, that was on Ellen DeGeneres last week that shared the lovely Gandhi joke i posted earlier. He's an 8 year old "prodigy" who can play the piano like a beast. You can just hear the intelligence when he talks. He probably makes all A's in school and will be in college by age 13 and a brain surgeon at 20.

Well, I'm too old to be a child prodigy. But, I've decided I want to be a guru - an expert at something. So why do I need your help? I need to find out what it is I can be a guru at! (In the voice of Little Richard in that Geico commercial, "Help me! Somebody, help me!")

You see, I'm pretty darn good at a lot of things, damn good at a few things, and pretty great at a couple things. I am knowledgeable about a lot of things and can advise people on most things (go ahead - ask me!). But sadly, I am no guru at anything... or if I am I haven't realized it yet.

I wanna be so great at something or so knowledgeable on a subject that Oprah and The Today Show invite me at least a couple times a year (and Ellen DeGeneres, too!). I want to be known as the authority on that thing. I want people to write letters or post questions on my blog requesting my assistance on that thing. I want to travel the world to share my knowledge or give seminars on the subject of my guru-ness.

So, people who know me... any ideas? What do you see me being great at? And people who don't know me, what thing does the world need a guru on? What is there that seems there is no authority on the subject? I'm creative and a fast learner. Ya'll know my goal is to be a woman of leisure and retire by age 40. I need your ideas! I'm trying to blow up. I promise, I'll take you all there with me!

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

To Be A Woman of Leisure

My friends know I've been saying this for years. It's been one of my major goals life - "to be a woman of leisure." That’s my American Dream. It doesn't mean I want to marry rich (though I have nothing against it!) or that I need to win the lottery (would love to!). It means that I am not working or paying bills for my health or because I really love it. Being self-employed or owning businesses is great - it suits me to not have to answer to a "boss" other than myself. But people say "It must be so fulfilling..." NOT! It's hard work!

Not having a steady paycheck or regular hours is tough. It takes a lot of discipline and determination to stay motivated to be owner, marketer, admin assistant, and primary worker of your own business. But my primary reason for working is so that I won’t be a bum on the street. Not because I want to.

It would be such a pleasure to wake up and not have to call anybody, answer any emails or do any work. I'd love to be Weezy Jefferson and go down to The Help Center and volunteer my time to help at risk teens, single mothers, or someone who just needs a listening ear. It would be a joy to get up every morning and paint or create art, write a novella, go to the gym, watch Ellen, Oprah and Ugly Betty, and end the day cooking an exciting gourmet meal because I felt like it. Who the heck WANTS to work?

My dad (God rest his soul) was and my mom still is a workaholic - at age 64. At this point it's not because she has to - it's because she doesn't know what else to do with herself. I’m grateful for them showing me how to aim high and work hard to reach my goals, but I sho nuff pray I'm not still working at that age. I'm trying to retire by 40 actually!

I don't know if this is a good or bad thing, but the ambition I had in my 20's has waned. By age 28, I had hustled and scraped my way to the top as a Senior Creative Director at an IT Consulting Firm (OK it wasn't the top but it was as high as I needed to get before I became an independent consultant). I definitely believed that whoever acquired the most “toys” wins. I went through all the real estate investing, jewelry, motorcycles, luxury cars, clothes, shoes and handbags. Hell, if I’d not gone so crazy on the last 5 things, I’d probably be able to retire tomorrow! But now in my 30’s I’m finding that my priorities have changed. I don’t need all the “bling” anymore. I just want to be comfortable and not have to worry about finances. But the biggest change is – I don’t want to work.

Oprah said to find your passion and try and turn it into a career, so I started on a second degree in Interior Design. But do I really want to start from scratch in a new industry? And once it becomes a job, will I lose the passion for it – just like I’ve done with graphic design (been doing that for 12 years). Starting in a new career also may set my age-40 retirement goal back a bit. SIGH!

So, lately my mind energy has been spent on thinking of creative ways to reach my goal as soon as possible – finding some great idea or inventing some innovative product that will sell like pet rocks and rubix cubes and make millions so I can live my life of leisure.

So, does it make me lazy to want to not work? Am I wrong for not wanting to bust my tail for a check? Why should our goal be to turn 60 or 65 when we can retire and enjoy a real vacation? Why should we have to wait ‘til we’re too old to go hiking in the rainforests of Africa or too wrinkled to sunbath on the shores of Greece? I say, why wait?